If you can rise above those losers (and let’s face it that doesn’t take much), and show women you are willing to offer them something they couldn’t get in 5 minutes at their local bar, you’ll be on to a winner.
Despite its massive number of users, I rate Untrue lower as I think it needs to do more to attract women.
With its explicitly imagery it has a “porno site” feel about it – not ideal for attracting quality female members. Illicit Encounters is big on helping members maintain their privacy, so most members don’t show photos to everyone who’s browsing, but rather only allow members with whom they’ve had online contact to see their photos (by setting passwords).
Unfortunately I found a lot of profiles to be empty, and some even have “test data” in them. Just trying to get a list of matches involves several clicks and selections.
So dating sites for cheaters do at least create an openness, since both sides know the situation from the outset. I found that the vast majority of men are simply looking for sex, while most women are on there because they are lacking a connection in their existing relationship (see more). Unlike other sites that charge a monthly or quarterly subscription, Ashley Madison allows members to control what they use and when with a credit system.